A gesture or remark intended to attract someone
sexually. “She was giving me the come-on”
Something you say or do to start a sexual relationship.
If I come on to a girl, she knows what I’m after.
‘That’ll teach you to come on to a girl half your age.
Come & Get It
The Greatest Come-on
Come on Boy. Fuck Me.
Coming on Strong
Come on, Boy. Take Me
Come on girl (come on girl)
Get up (get up)
Come on girl, come on girl
Get up off the bathroom floor
Don’t Call Me Baby
I had heard Robert Smith from the Cure saying one of their
songs was a crack at a teenage anthem.
I wanted to try that too, but didn’t want us to sing:
“Baby, why don’t you love me?” I always hated it when
guys called me “baby”. I remembered a movie where
Ann-Margret says “Don’t call me baby” to Elvis Presley.
I had liked the line so much I’d written it down in my
journal, so when I was looking for ideas, I thought: “Ah-ha!”
Flaunt Your Sexuality
When a woman flaunts her sexuality, she’s
not necessarily trying to elicit a reaction
from a man. She’s empowering herself.
A woman’s morals and intelligence aren’t
correlated to how she presents herself.
And, hey, if you’ve got it, flaunt it.
Casual Sex for All
Why has casual sex been given such a bad rap?
I speak from experience, when I say this is
especially true if you’re a woman.
The self-righteous warn us. If you’re having
and enjoying sex it must mean there’s something
wrong with you or you’re overcompensating for
some serious emotional issues.
Conservatives can’t imagine a woman being sexually
gregarious, who needs and wants sex for pleasure.
When I write about casual sex among single people,
I get a similar reaction. Many worry that society is
crumbling because of “hookup apps” like Tinder, Blendr, Grindr, etc.
They seem to feel that sexual activity without
emotional connection and long-term commitment
(such as marriage) is an E-Ticket to eternal
damnation, depression, or low self-esteem.
But others think the current digital hookup
culture is a great way to be sexually active
while single, and maybe even a good way to meet
someone who might become a longer-term partner.
Casual sex – two words that can mean very
different things to many different people.
For some, the idea of having sex casually
with someone whose name you might struggle
to remember in the morning is incomprehensible.
Like showering with your shoes on
or eating dinner in the bath.
But for others, casual sex is natural
and easy. If you want to stay single
then casual sex is essential.