About to have your first lesbian experience?
I know, the anticipation is high, hormones are
pumping, you can barely wait another day.
[published by dykes united]
Here are some ways to make it mind-blowing and special
The female orgasm is still treated as an elusive
and esoteric enigma shrouded in mystery. It’s not.
Higher lesbian orgasm-frequency could be that
lesbian women are more comfortable and familiar
with the female body and are better able
to induce orgasm in their female partners.
Most of us masturbate these days. If you’re paying
attention, you’ll realize you have a particular way
of touching yourself (along with what you imagine
in your mind) that always brings you to orgasm.
If you’ve never done this, get a mirror and take a
look at yourself. It’ll help a lot when you’re
sitting in front of another woman, who you’ll
discover doesn’t look exactly like you!
Knowing yourself and being able to share how you
like to be touched with your lover will be very helpful.
As you get to know your own body better,
you’ll also be a better lesbian lover.
If you can’t enjoy au-natural sex as a first time
experience with your lady lover, then what’s up that?
Sex toys are great but not for your first time.
Be present with your new lover’s body, her
breathing, her scent and her sounds.
Save toys for later. Toys are great. I love them, but
I don’t need them for a first time experience with any woman.
Ask her what she likes and what she wants.
If she’s a shy lesbian and won’t share, then
stop for a second and ask if she likes that
or not with each new way you touch her.
Be brave and tell her where and how to touch
you, too. You’ll appreciate it and so will she.
And if you’re both really verbal, then
communication makes the sex even better.
Don’t overthink everything. It will make you more
nervous and tense, which will inhibit your ability
to really enjoy the whole experience.
Touch her all over and don’t just lunge for her crotch.
Slow yourself down and really enjoy the experience.
Slowly take her clothes off.
Enjoy every inch of her body slowly and deliberately
enjoy the fact woman-to-woman sex lasts a lot longer
on average than heterosexual sex. Yes, women rock
when it comes to long-lasting and great sex.
Take the time to enjoy every inch of her body – her
neck and ears, shoulders and arms, chest and breasts,
belly and butt, thighs, calves and feet. Yes, go for
luxuriating in her feminine body. It’s a beautiful thing.
Finally, have realistic expectations. You may orgasm or
you may not. It’s not the most important thing actually.
The goal is to get close and get physical.
You’ll learn a lot from every sexual encounter you
have with a woman. You’ll also learn more about
what you like and what other women like.
