Porn is everywhere these days. The average age of first
exposure to porn is now just 11 years old, establishing
ideas of what normal sex is like long before they start.
Boys are turning up to see sex therapists because
they’re anxious they can’t last 20 minutes before
ejaculating (the average time is actually three to six minutes).
They’re asking sex educators if it’s OK to have sex
with animals. Girls are keen to have cosmetic surgery
– boob jobs and labiaplasty are popular – convinced
the porn-star look and performance is what boys want in bed.
One girl said: “When I watched porn with my boyfriend,
I thought that’s how girls should moan, that’s how
you should pleasure your partner. Then I had sex and I
realised it’s about how you feel, how your partner feels.”
Hardcore porn has become the de facto sex education
for young people, because parents are too embarrassed
to talk to their children about sex, and many schools
are terrified of providing explicit sex education.
Porn shows vaginas that are not real, there is no hair,
guys go for a very long time, penises are long and firm,
sex is really rough, and girls like it when you come on
their face. Porn tends to present only the male view of sex.
Teenage Treat
Teenage Spirit
[Wish I Were There]
Teenage Spirit from Richard Kern on Vimeo.
Last Night’s Escort
The Young
Have Sexual Urges
Because sexuality is often seen as something requiring
adult maturity to experience and express, adolescent
sexuality is portrayed – even in ostensibly objective
research – as tentative, experimental, confused,
clumsy, and not to be encouraged.
A substantial research literature addresses adolescent
sexuality as an expression of “risk-taking” requiring
broad social efforts to suppress or control
The control of adolescent sexuality seems to be
the point of much of the debate over the content
of American sex education which is often skewed
toward abstinence, pregnancy, and STI, with little
or no mention of masturbation, sexual pleasure or orgasm.
Come & Get Me
Have You Come
Here to Masturbate?
The most enjoyable thing for a man//woman
to do if bored and or by themselves.
It involves for a man grabbing his cock and
rubbing dry or with lubricant until he ejaculates
For a female, it involves either using fingers
or an object like a dildo, vibrator or cucumber.
She masturbates by inserting fingers or object
into her vagina and with a steady rhythm rubs
her clitoris clitoris until she spasms.
A View to Harden You
Get Those Knickers off
Carry on
Masturbating
Masturbation releases stress. Many people masturbate to relax.
Some people even find it helps them fall asleep.
Orgasms — no matter how they happen — can act as
a natural painkiller and even help with period cramps.
Mutual masturbation (masturbating with a partner) is a great way
to have safer sex while showing the other person what feels good.
Masturbation plays a crucial role in helping
people understand what they enjoy sexually
and how to achieve sexual pleasure.
When young people (especially people with vulvas)
learn about their own genitals through self touch
they are much more likely to be clear about what
they want and like from and with their partners.
By skipping over this topic in sex education we’re
missing a big opportunity to empower young people.
