The female demand:
eat me out before you
come inside
The preponderance of blowjob media exposure has
made fellatio a routine part of hook-up culture,
while cunnilingus is reserved for the “special someone.”
I wouldn’t suggest that anyone should have
either attitude towards oral sex—to each
their own—only that the discrepancy between
perceptions of male and female oral sex is problematic.
When we normalize the type of sex that is male
pleasure-centric and push the type of sex that
is female-pleasure centric into the territory
of “occasional treat,” we create a substantial imbalance.
There’s this stigma about eating girls out.
Sometimes I’ll be having dinner with some
of my douchebag gay guy friends and they’ll
be like, “Ew, vaginas are gross and slimy!”
It really grinds my gears.
Make Your Man a Foreplay Connoisseur
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If a woman really wants her guy to love foreplay
and get creative with it, stop calling it
foreplay and start calling it building anticipation.
Men want to be playful. As long they we know sex
is coming eventually, making a game out of getting
there can create a mind-blowing urgency.
One that will soon make sex without foreplay seem
dull by comparison. Here are three suggestions, girls:
Show him your favourite vibrator and
how he can use it to warm you up.
Set a timer, and tell him he’s not allowed
to take off his pants for 15 minutes.
It’ll force him to become more
creative and it has all the buildup.
Use sex candies. Or whipped cream.
Bait the areas of your body where
you want more attention — all the
places he misses before plunging in.
React passionately, and you’ll soon
make him a foreplay connoisseur.
Teen Girls Demand Attention
