Do you wonder if lesbians have better sex
than straight women? Yes. Yes. Oh my God, yes!
Women who sleep with women repeatedly report
higher levels of sexual satisfaction
than women who have sex with men.
Where is lesbian sex going right for women
where heterosexual sex is going wrong?
Lesbian women know where their clitoris is
and know what to do with it to get an orgasm.
They don’t need to show their lesbian partner
what to do, which means their sexual satisfaction is higher.
Many men who believe they can give their partners
an orgasm by just having intercourse.
That only happens for 20% of all women. They often need
clitoral stimulation, or oral sex, for it to happen.
It’s one of the reasons why heterosexual women fake orgasms.
Lesbians Have Better Orgasms
The female orgasm is still treated as an elusive
and esoteric enigma shrouded in mystery. It’s not.
Higher lesbian orgasm-frequency could be that
lesbian women are more comfortable and familiar
with the female body and are better able
to induce orgasm in their female partners.
I’ve forgotten the first time I pulled out my hair.
It’s been a habit for so many years, done
absent-mindedly while watching TV or typing on my laptop.
Tracing it back to the beginning seems
impossible. But I remember the first time
I realized that it wasn’t normal.
It was December 2011, the winter of my
junior year at high school, and I was
sitting in a movie theater watching Young Adult.
As Charlize Theron’s anxious, wound-up Mavis
pulled out her hair one at a time one, I found
myself catching my breath.
A Chronic Condition
Although I didn’t know to call it this at the time,
I’d finally seen my mental illness portrayed on-screen,
and the sense of recognition I felt left me shaken to the core.
I now know what to call it. Millions of real people
suffer from trichotillomania, the chronic condition
of pulling out one’s hair.
I generally limit mine to my eyebrows,
and although there have been times
when I pick so much I have to use pencil
to fill in the empty spots, it’s typically
not too noticeable by others.
My first Sexual Experience
Same Sex Pleasure
Girls Open Up
Hot Lesbian Lovers
Like to Get It On
Make gay eye contact.
You know what I’m talking about. It’s that moment where
you spot a girl down the street or from across the room.
Something seems different. Maybe it’s the extra bit
of swagger or the conspicuous skinny jeans.
Maybe she looked at you first. Did she? Well, look back!
Young Juicy Cunt
I know, this is a relatively simple concept, looking at
people you’re interested in, but there’s a special
brand of eye contact that goes on between two girls
who like girls.
It lasts barely half a second, but that flit
of eye contact can mean so much. Like an
agreement or an acknowledgement or
membership in a (not-so) secret club,
a club called ‘lesbians.’
Unless, you know, you’re into that kind of thing.
Fancy a Ride?
It’s a “you’re gay, I’m gay” kinda thing.
Very preliminary in picking up chicks.
But also very important, especially if you’re
not in a specifically queer environment.
Gay eye contact allows you to circumvent all that
hassle of accidentally hitting on straight girls.
Unless you like that kind of thing.
Does that sound a cliche? It might, but that’s because
it’s true. No one’s going to believe in your game if
you don’t believe in your game.
Confidence, not to be confused with cockiness or flashiness,
is attractive. It’s convincing. And it’s totally visible.