Doesn’t It Just!
We must protect our children from sex! Or so most modern thinking goes. This idea of children’s inherent sexual innocence is fairly recent. In fact, the Victorians created it./>
They believed that for children innocence and moral purity was defined by their ignorance of adult life and adult knowledge. Above all, childhood innocence was premised on a lack of sexuality. The child was seen not so much as a pre-sexual creature, but by definition an asexual one.
Before Lewis Carroll, Peter Pan, and child labor protection, sexuality in most homes was as obvious as the cows sleeping in front of the fire during winter.
Children were seen as miniature versions of adults, albeit not quite as savvy, and they were subject to the same exposure to life as everyone else.
Indigenous people in Brazil known as the Canela, up until the encroachment of Christian missionaries, used sex for just about everything, including smoothing over conflicts, cementing political alliances, and celebrating holidays.
Nakedness, frolicking, and the occasional gang-bang were seen by children on a regular basis. So much so that the kids would often mimic the sex play of adults. Seen as natural by adults.
the Pleasures of Sex
Historically, the sexual desires of adolescent girls were
considered a delusion, a symptom, or an expression of evil.
Young females were always purely functional vessels.
Any pleasure was considered irrelevant or criminal.
I first had sex while still at school. I was so worried
about getting pregnant, I made the boy wear two condoms.
The “sex” lasted approximately three seconds. It was more
disappointing than finding out Santa Claus wasn’t real.
I just remember thinking: Is that it?
First Time Sex
The overwhelming disappointment haunted me for years.
But I had no one who really knew to ask if that was normal or not.
It wasn’t until I was 19 and started dating an older
guy when I got to know what I liked in bed.
I began to explore my body and had my first orgasm.
Looking back, I was clueless and, instead of looking
at sex as something pleasurable and fun, I feared it.
Sex Play in Bed
Young Girl with Mistress
Young & Free
“I kept telling her how much I cared about her and how much I loved her and she liked it. I could tell by her body.”
“I am 17 and still a virgin. I’ve been in situations where it could easily have happened.”
“For our first time, we used a condom. But I had to change it 3 times because she was dry and it was painful for her.”
If this is your first time having penetrative sex, taking a bath or shower beforehand can help soothe you since the warm water can relax muscles.
Having sex is a normal part of human nature, it is a way for you and your partner to take your relationship to a more intimate level.
How long will first-time sex last? It really depends. It can last from less than a minute to several minutes.