Or, if you prefer, Desperate Housewife
An older women shouldn’t feel she’s past
her sexual best. What she lacks in youth she more
than makes up for in wisdom, success and fucking
experience. She can ‘educate’ a young man,
showing him the sexual ropes.
Men are attracted to a woman who knows what
it’s all about and is sexually free.
The idea of a woman who is sexually knowledgeable
and passionate is exciting to a lot of young men
who are getting more hesitant about interactions
or conditional sexual access from younger women.
A boy who wants to bait a cougar can’t just turn up with
his naiveté, good looks, neediness, a willing penis and
hope to impress.
Cougars have been having sex for years so expect
to learn a few things.
You’re young so you can probably outlast and out-fuck
any man in her age group. But work on your other skills.
Massage, foot rubs, paint her toenails,
run her a bath, spoil her.
Welcome to Cougarville
The term cougar raises hackles among women who say
the image of a wild animal, however sleek and beautiful,
prowling for victims is demeaning.
A cougar is caricatured as a sex-starved woman slinking
through bars for young men to satisfy nothing but physical needs.
According to the Urban Dictionary, which lists many
definitions of cougar too unsavory to print, the cougar
woman is generally at least 35 and always on the hunt.
Many of the Hollywood and tabloid depictions put
the women in their 40s, 50s and even 60s.
Sociologists studying these relationships
generally study women of those ages
involved with men 10 to 15 years younger.
The older woman who has a strong sexual appetite
for younger men may just be looking for a boy toy.
Women reach their sexual peak much later
than men do, so older women and younger
men may be especially sexually compatible.
I Want a Sexually
Experienced Older Woman
Men are attracted to a woman who knows
what it’s all about and is sexually liberated.
The idea of a woman who is knowledgeable and
passionate is exciting to a lot of young men
who are getting more hesitant about interactions
or conditional sexual access from younger women.
Sex & The Mature Woman
Men are attracted to a woman who knows what
it’s all about and is sexually liberated.
Taking a woman who is knowledgeable and
passionate is exciting for most men.
A boy who wants to bait a cougar needs more
than his naiveté, good looks, neediness,
a willing penis and the hope to impress.
Cougars have been having sex for years
so a boy should expect to learn a few things.
Like discovering what a woman wants.
Let an Older Women Teach You
You’re young so you can outlast and
out-fuck any man in her age group.
But work on your other skills.
Learn to court her, pay attention
to her insights. Above all, spoil her.
Best Sex of My Life
I had a sexual encounter with an older woman
which was some of the best sex of my life.
The benefits continued when I started
having sex with girls my own age.
Having experienced sex with a cougar
the attraction of older women has
become my ‘type’.
A Lot of Practice
The cougar has had many more years of
experience with multiple partners.
Before marriage, they may have had a few partners.
After divorce, the notches on their bedposts
may have gone up exponentially.
They have had lots of practice.
Cougars have been in long term relationships
and marriages, which have provided years of
sexual experience with one partner.
Those memories are implanted into the older
woman’s brain and, whether good or bad,
have shaped her sexual expertise.
PhDs in Sexual Studies
Their self-awareness comes from years of experience
and communicating with sexual partners.
They’ve tried different positions,
techniques, and fetishes.
They’ve self-pleasured themselves
for many years, and aren’t afraid
of communicating what makes them purr.
If the girl doesn’t know what she wants,
it’s hard for the man to figure it out.
Cougars know exactly what they want
and which buttons the guy needs to press.
Sex Researchers
They are eager to find out the specific
desires of their current boyfriend.
They’ve been taught by a variety of partners
which positions and techniques turn men on.
They ask questions and figure out what makes
their man roar like the king of a lion’s den.
What they don’t know, they will
research in books, movies or the web.
They don’t have any delusions that they are going
to hook this man into marriage and/or start a family.
This takes the pressure off a man who just
wants to have fun without obligations.
This stress relief is a major reason sex is great
with an older woman who isn’t as needy or demanding.
Sexual Confidence
They know when to be dominant and submissive.
The man senses this knowledge and power,
which is very stimulating.
The older woman will buy books, lingerie,
sex toys, candles and wine to set the mood.
This is a huge turn-on for men who may
have been with young girls who are j
ust learning the ropes.
The younger girls may be self-conscious
and uncomfortable talking dirty in bed.
Older women are spontaneous and comfortable being naked.
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