Feminist Porn. Really?
What is feminist porn? Can porn even be feminist?
If you’re asking these questions you aren’t alone.
There are so many women who struggle with the idea of feminist
porn.If you’re curious about or excited by the idea of watching
porn[and potentially sharing it with their partner!), but you
want toapproach it responsibly, here are some suggestions.
There’s the usual misconception that feminist porn is touchy feely,
is all about relationships, and it has a lot of kissing and foreplay.
If that sounds a bit tame, don’t worry. Feminist porn doesn’t
have to be about soulfully looking into each other’s eyes.
It can be about a woman on top fucking some boy she picked
up in a bar. Remember. Sex work is work It should be paid for.
If You Go Down to
the Woods Today
Sex Object [Shock of the Nude]
The painting Hylas and the Nymphs (1896) by John
William Waterhouse is of a handsome young man being
lured to a watery grave by a bevy of topless nymphs.
The problem is that the nymphs are not adult women,
but pubescent girls. Victorian men and their lolitas.
Whet Your Sexual Appetite
Libido & Arousal
Libido’s about what’s going on in your
mind. Like having a hot sex fantasy.
Sexual arousal is about what’s happening
to your body. Like getting wet if you have
a cunt or getting an erection if you have a cock.
The Bliss of Sex
Bliss: A feeling of well-being which goes beyond sensual
pleasure and is caused by a change of consciousness.
Perhaps earlier you felt stressed and worried,
as if your life was full of problems—but often
after sex, everything seems miraculously different.
Your problems seem to have disappeared. You seem
to be glowing inwardly, as if a kind of dynamo
has been switched on inside you, filling you
with a feeling of completeness and serenity.