Oh! My Fucking God!
I just want you to eat me out. I want you
to do it for a long time with varying speeds,
pressures, and tongue patterns.
Do it until I tell you “Don’t stop,” which is
your cue I’m going to come soon, and at this
point you should maintain a constant speed,
pressure, and tongue pattern until I cry “Oh!
my fucking god, I’m coming!”
Medical Orgasms
Dear Doctor,
Give Me an Orgasm
At the end of the 19th century doctors recognized
that if they rubbed a woman’s vulva she would have
what they called a paroxysm, a violent shudder.
But they didn’t see it as an orgasm, more like
a conditioned reflex.
They recognized the treatment cured hysteria,
but they didn’t realize it was sexual.
Hippocrates first described hysteria-like symptoms
in women and prescribed masturbation to lure a woman’s
wandering womb from her diaphragm back to her genital area.
Massaging the vulva remained the treatment
de rigueur for hysteria. With the advent of
electricity, medical professionals developed
electric vibrators to replace manual stimulation.
Back then, sexual pleasure in women was unknown,
unspoken or taboo. Vibrators were used as a cure,
as a medical procedure that was intended to heal
cases of hysteria, largely in women.
Medical and personal-health use of vibrators
persisted until the blue pornographic films
of the 1920s began incorporating them.
After more than 2,000 years, the link between
female masturbation and female sexuality had
finally been formed in the general public’s mind.
Vibrators quickly fell out of popularity as
genteel women sought to avoid the taint of
an overtly sexual stimulator.
Vibrators are now often used in sex therapy.
They have the ability to increase swelling
and lubrication for a woman.
Typically men get aroused and are engorged far
more quickly than women. About the time a man
is ready to penetrate his female partner, she’s
just considering whether or not she’s in the mood.
For many, incorporating a vibrator into their
play will allow for their arousal to be timed
a bit more appropriately.
As many as 70% of women have difficulty achieving
orgasm by means of penile penetration alone.
Women still think the way you have an orgasm is
through a penis entering the vagina. But there
are no nerves in the vagina.
That’s not how you have an orgasm. You have one
through clitoral stimulation. And a vibrator in
addition to penetration creates far more success
in achieving an orgasm.
Pull Down My Panties
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Fucking Affair
She Licks Your Joystick
Use your hands too
A blow job might count as oral sex, but that doesn’t
mean your mouth has to do all the work.
The mouth as providing wetness and your
hands as providing tightness.
If your jaw starts to feel sore or tired a few minutes
into the job, you’re likely suctioning too hard with
your mouth. So shift some of the work to your hands,
counting on them for pressure.
Here’s your basic stroke once you’ve warmed up a bit:
Wrap your dominant hand around the shaft, then add your mouth.
Connect your hand to your lips—as in, press your index finger
and thumb (which are making an O sign) against your lips and
keep them sealed there.
Move your hand-plus-lips up and down the penis.
