Being faithful and monogamous
isn’t natural for any of us.
We carry the biological imprint
of polygamy, the opposite of
lifelong fidelity to one mate.
Every time we acknowledge that someone of the
opposite sex is attractive or sexy we are doing
nothing other than deciding they’d be a suitable mate.
It isn’t easy for a woman to understand what it’s like
to be a man. Imagine you’re starving, and someone puts
a huge buffet in front of you.
There’s delicious, mouth-watering food all around you,
It’s it’s really really hard not to eat it all.
That’s what it’s like to be a man around attractive women.
The urge to want to hump everything that moves is part of
a man’s natural programming.
Sexual desire, carnal knowledge, the joy of fucking.
It’s for this that penises rise like drawbridges and
vaginas become engorged with blood! It’s for this that
people throw snot-nosed kids into ravines, cross raging
rivers, or ice-pick up the wrong side of frozen waterfalls.
It’s for this that politicians undo their flies in
election season, porn magazines with their pages stuck
together are found stacked in church basements,
He wished there was a way to sneak into the room with
the girls. He just wanted to watch them, as they slept.
Watching them would be enough for him. Afterwards, he
could go to the bathroom and finish himself off,
just to release some tension.
Sexual energy comes into play before sex even takes place.
The greatest pleasure isn’t sex, but the passion with
which it is practiced. When the passion is intense, sex
completes the dance, but it’s never the principal aim.
It’s never just about sex. Even the fastest, dirtiest, most
impersonal screw was about more than sex.
It’s about connection, about looking at another human being
and seeing your own loneliness and neediness reflected back.
It’s recognising that together you have the power
temporarily to banish that sense of isolation.
It’s about experiencing what it is to be human at the basest,
most instinctual level. How could that be described as just sex?
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