It was not at all unusual for girls between 16
and their early twenties to serve as maids in
English households right into the early 1960s.
It was expected that the employers of such girls
should act in loco parentis and spank them when required.
A routine B Movie from the late 1950s included
a brief conversation on this very subject between
the husband and wife employing such a girl.
“I have had quite enough. Someone should give
that girl a sound spanking,” says the husband.
“Don’t look at me, I would have thought
that was your job,” the wife replies.
Dig That Fetish
A classic and popular fetish is dressing up and role-playing.
It ranks high on the desirability scale and low on the taboo scale,
which means it’s an ideal way to ease yourself into trying fetishes.
A lot of people are open to it and it’s nothing to feel weird about
bringing up. From the classic maid’s uniform to something more daring,
there are plenty of costumes to try.
Though some might put spanking in the BDSM realm,
it actually seems to be so popular in its own
right that it deserves a separate category.
Maybe because, for a lot of people, spanking
provides a slightly more vanilla option
or an intro to BDSM.
It can also be combined with many other fetishes,
while for some a good spanking is enough.
There is no limit to what can be fetishized,
but some fetishes are definitely more popular
than others. Start experimenting with the more
common ones and see what excites you.
Discover where it might lead.
More Like a Beating
I Want You to Spank Me
Erotic spanking (spankophilia) is the act
of spanking another person for sexual arousal
or gratification of either or both parties.
Activities range from a spontaneous smack
on bare buttocks during a sexual activity,
to occasional sexual role play to domestic
It may involve the use of a hand
or the use of a variety of spanking
implements, such as a spanking paddle or cane.
The most common type of erotic spanking is
administered on the bare buttocks, but can
also be combined with bondage to heighten
sexual arousal and feelings of helplessness.
Many cultures describe pain as an aphrodisiac.
For example, the Kama Sutra, in particular,
goes into specific detail on how to properly
strike a partner during sex.
Freud thought that physical punishment in childhood
lead to sadomasochistic preferences in the bedroom.
Sexualized corporal punishment. It does raise a lot of questions.
You may love spanking but not have a clue where
that love and enthusiasm comes from.
When you’re engaged in it, you may even have the fleeting
doubtful thought. Is this weird? Am I messed up?