We as women still continue to hate using the word ‘cunt’. This most sacred part of our bodies. We’ve picked up and carried the same disdain and suppression handed down generation after generation of mostly men. We we don’t even stop to question why.
Whether you use it to degrade another, or won’t use it because it’s the worst swear word possible, both follow the same belief. That this word is dirty, that “it” is disgusting.
Where has the grace and awe gone for this word? For this part of our most intimate feminine, for this centre of a woman? Where has reverence for our great gift to create and give birth gone?
Why is it so much easier to leave it as taboo and shy away from owning its power?
Men Should Have Female
When it comes to pleasuring a woman, how many men know how to stimulate all a woman’s pleasure zones in her vagina?
Sure, most men now know about the clitoris [although they may still be groping around for it] but do they know about A-spot stimulation, or mixed in some deep U-spot contact, or blended clitoral and G-spot vibrations?
Start with 3 parts clitoral stimulation
This area is a woman’s sexual epicenter, an orgasmic powerhouse in which no sensation goes unnoticed. The vast majority of sensitive nerve-endings that contribute to the female orgasm, and make up the clitoral network, are concentrated on the surface of the vulva and respond much more to persistent stimulation than to penetration.
According to Emily Nagoski in her book on Female Orgasms, “the clitoris is the center of a woman’s erotic world. In fact, 95 percent of women self-pleasure with no vaginal stimulation at all.”
In a series of experiments, the late Dr. Alfred Kinsey asked five gynecologists to examine the genitals of almost 900 women in order to find out which areas were the most sensitive.
“The deep interior walls of the vagina really have few nerve endings and are quite insensitive when stroked or lightly pressed.”
But when gently touched on their clitorises, 98 percent of women were aware of it. So pour that clitoral stimulation slowly, gently and liberally.
Now blend with G-Spot stimulation
Short for the Grafenberg Spot, this area of spongy tissue is located on the front upper wall of the vagina and is about the diameter of a dime.
While sensitive to stimulation, but without as many nerve endings as the clitoris, the G-spot generally responds to a more persistent, massaging pressure.
If you’ve heard the term “blended orgasms” that’s usually referring to the combination of clitoral and G-sport stimulation. Many guys blend these sensations through a combination of oral and manual stimulation – so blend thoroughly!
Now stir in some A-spot stimulation
Also known as the Anterior Fornix, this patch of sensitive tissue is just above the cervix, at the innermost point of the vagina.
Ready to Take Her
Sweep her off her feet and have your wicked
way. Get her to moan and writhe in ecstasy.
Devour her thoroughly and her back will rise
off the bed, she’ll bite her lip & her thighs
will begin to open. Devour her and the labia
will engorge and open for you.
Turn her on to the point where she can no longer
even hold back her orgasm. Where she’s so sexually
charged her primal state.s unleashed.
After you first enter her, slowly do it again.
Repeat it over and over. You need to lead her
down the path. Sexual pleasure is all about arousal.
Ariana Grande’s ‘Dangerous Woman’ still challenges
taboos of sex and power.
Rihanna and Beyoncé had broken their molds and shown
the world pop was a platform for empowerment and
Like these women before her, Grande too was ready
to take her stand. And when she did the world
would never be the same.