The Straight Male Dilemma
You’re having amazing sex,
you’re on the verge of orgasm,
you can hear her moaning more
loudly as she too gets closer.
Then you finally climax together. Or did you?
She was moaning loudly and it certainly sounded as if
she’d had an orgasm. But now she’s gone completely quiet.
Is she lying there in bliss or quietly disappointed?
Sensitive men think important to know if she has or hasn’t.
We feel we’re good lovers when we know
our partner climaxes and that she’s
happy with our sex life.
Right or wrong, we feel it’s an essential part of sex.
Ready to Take Away
Physical Signs
Her pupils dilate.
Her face and chest are flushed.
Her vagina becomes more lubricated.
Her vaginal muscles contract and go into spasms
Her nipples get hard again.
Her breathing changes: it gets faster and deeper.
None of these signs are true for all women all the time
Coming into Her Own
Post-Coital Flush
The sex flush occurs as a normal part of
sexual response in approximately 25 percent
of men and 50 percent to 75 percent of women.
The flush usually begins on the upper abdomen
and spreads over the chest, shoulders, and
sometimes to the neck, buttocks, back,
arms, legs and face.
The sex flush appears when women
and men are close to orgasm. It
disappears about 5 minutes after orgasm.
We both agreed to rough sex. She said she liked being
choked. While I was performing, it started to go wrong.
She must have passed out when I was on the verge of
climaxing which I wasn’t aware of until after I came.
When I realized what had happened, I started to slap
her to wake her. When she did, she freaked out.
Then I freaked out, so when she asked me if I’d finished,
I lied. When she discovered I’d lied, it went downhill
from there, her calling me a rapist, among other things.
She reported me to Tinder and I was kicked out.