Many Women Experience Multiple Orgasms
Women tend to need more time to become sexually roused
than men. But, once things get started, a woman has a
special advantage — she can have multiple orgasms.
Multiple orgasms occur when a woman has more
than one orgasm during a sexual experience
with her partner or while self-stimulating.
They don’t always occur immediately in a row,
but with continued stimulation and arousal,
a woman has the power to continue enjoying
orgasms without limitations.
The world record goes to a woman at the Denmark Masturbate-a-thon
who reportedly reached 222 orgasms! Men cannot enjoy multiples
because a man’s body needs a “refractory period” to recover from orgasm.
Of course, most women are generally content with one orgasm,
but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try to push your sexual
exploration to new heights. Here’s how:
Don’t overthink your goal.
If you try too hard to reach orgasm,
you likely won’t be able to at all.
When you are thinking “orgasm, orgasm,
orgasm,” you can’t release and enjoy
your partner’s touch. Instead, simply
be in the moment, and don’t take sex so seriously.
Have fun and just enjoy whatever feelings and pleasures
come. When you have such a mind-set, you are more likely
to reach orgasm more than once!
Don’t let your arousal fall to zero.
When you reach orgasm, it’s natural
to want to take things down a notch
(some women report that their clitoris
is very sensitive following orgasm).
Try to switch positions or put the focus back on
a different activity, whether it’s oral sex,
intercourse, or self-stimulation.
But don’t let your arousal drop back down to zero,
because it will be much harder to bring it back up.
Instead, keep the embers lit.
Keep thinking sexy thoughts and enjoying
your partner’s touches and caresses.
After a few moments, you will likely be ready
for more intense stimulation and orgasm once again.
Let your body guide you.
Multiple orgasms are probably not going
to happen during every sex session.
Sometimes you simply won’t have the time
or energy to make orgasm a multiple occurrence.
Listen to your body and let your arousal guide you.
Don’t judge your orgasms or compare them with what
you see on TV or what you hear from your friends. —
An orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm, so enjoy
them whenever and however they come, whether
they happen once, twice, or thrice!
Make it a sexy game.
Text your partner a naughty
message like, “How many times can you make
me reach orgasm tonight?” and then take turns
bringing each other to new heights of pleasure.
Remember, sex is ever evolving within a relationship,
so by committing to exploration and keeping the
communication lines open, you can ensure that your
sex life never gets stale or predictable.