Fucking Take Charge! Fuck Me! I’m Coming!
Why Don’t We Fuck? This is How You Do It.
The words we use to describe what we’re doing
during sex affects the meaning and experience.
When I first started having sex, I never used
the word “fucking.” It felt too dirty and harsh.
Far removed from the gentle and courteous way
my then boyfriend touched me. Later, when
I trusted him more, I would beg him to
“Please, please, fuck me harder.”
I don’t know if it was conditioning from movies or
our Gen X parents or what, but the idea of waiting
to have sex to somehow lock down a relationship is
something most, if not all, of us think about.
We’re taught that dudes have a short attention span
and if we “give it up” too easily, he’ll move on to
a better, shinier binch before we even have to chance
to mop up the jizz on our stomachs. Or face. No judgement.
So really, you should always have sex on a first
date because it’s the only true litmus test there is.
Why waste time and money on nice outfits and shellac
nails and Spanx or whatever to get to date three,
fuck, and realize you hate each other?
Wouldn’t it make sense to figure it out right away?
Fucking Take Charge
When we get hot and heavy, please
take charge. Please, please fuck me.
Trust me, I’m not going to just lie still
– I’ll get involved. But don’t make me
force your hand into my panties.
That makes me feel like a rapist.
We’ve been kissing for a half hour and
your hand keeps grazing my ass.
That’s nice, but it’s time to move forward.
Get on top of me. Don’t make me get on top
right out of the gate and start bobbing up
and down on your cock like I’m practicing
some crazy new aerobic yoga because YOU
won’t go down on me.
Roll on top and start dry humping
like a good boy should.
Fuck Me! I’m Coming
This Is How
You Do It
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Teenage Fuck Buddies
What The Teenage Fuck
SEX GOES CASUAL
Friends with benefits, booty calls, fuck buddies, hooking up. Short-term relationships and one-night stands have replaced “going steady” for many 16-year-olds, often facilitated by Facebook and mobile phones.
“I’m not really good with commitment,” says Malina.
“So with my fuck buddy I can have sex with him, but then have sex with someone else and he won’t get angry about it because he can have sex with someone else as well and I won’t worry about it.”
16-year-olds are more likely to change partners than 18-year-olds, with people settling into longer-term relationships as they get older.
Thirty per cent of sexually active students reported having three or more sexual partners in the previous year, up from 20 per cent in 2002.
FASTER, HARDER
Women of a certain age recall that when they were young, oral sex was an “exotic” part of one’s bedroom repertoire, something you tried after five years of marriage when your sex life had become stale. Anal sex was taboo.
For today’s teens, fellatio is so prosaic it’s been nicknamed “a goodnight kiss” in the United States. Nearly half of American high school students over 15 have had oral sex.
But there’s still squeamishness about “giving” oral pleasure.
“You have to get the courage up to give head,” April confesses.
“You go [deep breath], ‘One, two, three, go for it!’ It’s uncomfortable for a girl. It’s weird.”
Fred didn’t try oral sex with his girlfriend until months after they lost their virginity together.
“She’s the only one I’ve ever done [oral sex] with,” he says.
“I find it a very personal thing; you’re crossing a serious line.”
Teens are also crossing one of the last sexual frontiers – anal sex. Spurred by porn, this shift is so recent there is only anecdotal evidence about its prevalence, with suggestions up to 10 per cent of young people have tried anal. April is one of them.
“I was curious so I tried it, I just kind of went for it,” she says.
“I don’t know if I would do it again. It’s kind of uncomfortable and pleasurable at the same time.”
TEENS NEED WANT SEX
Most young people have the sex they want and they’re having it in a fairly safe way. Any teen lives a good sexual life if they’re not stressed or threatened or unhappy about it. More than 90 per cent of teenagers in a survey wanted the last sex they had.
It’s also easier to be a gay teenager today, thanks to celebrity role models such as Ruby Rose and Matthew Mitcham, better sexuality education in schools, and the internet offering more avenues to find like-minded people.
About 8 per cent of sexually active young men say their last sex was with a man, compared to 4 per cent of girls who had lesbian sex.
Experts say parents play a crucial role in instilling healthy sexual behaviour in their children. A good relationship with parents will have a much stronger influence on young people’s outcomes than seeing porn online.
It’s not just about having one conversation with a child about the birds and the bees when they’re young; it’s having an ongoing conversation right through the teenage years, helping them negotiate relationships.
Parents need to take the relationships teenagers have seriously, because teenagers certainly take them seriously.
Oral Sex Performance
Lick It Before You Stick It
Do you fear fellatio? Does cunnilingus make you anxious? Look no further than these tips for first-year students of foreplay.
Whether you’re an amateur love-maker who has no idea what you should be doing or you’re already a professional at licking others’ naughty bits, having a look at the playbook of foreplay will only help you advance in the art of sex.
To start, always remember this rule: you have to lick it before you stick it. The human body is a jumble of moving parts and quivering sphincters (sexy, right?) that needs a decent amount of lubrication before it gets going.
To make this happen, you have to take it upon yourself to do everything in your power to get the juices flowing.
What does that mean? Tease and tantalize. Be playful with your kisses, yet purposeful with where you put them.
Guys, every fiber of your being should be dedicated to turning her on. Trust me, you’ll be rewarded for it later.
Girls, it might be called a blowjob, but that doesn’t mean you have to approach the “job” like a lazy teenager working for minimum wage. Go at it with some gusto.
The number one rule of oral sex? Just dive in. This is all a learning process, and if you throw yourself at him/her like a baby deer on ice skates, all excited and eager and hopelessly goofy, at least they’ll feel comfortable teaching you how they like to be pleased best
Giving Her Head
Tell her it’s beautiful, tell her which parts you like best. Get her to trust you enough to let you down between her legs.
Now stop and look at what you see. Beautiful, isn’t it? There is nothing that makes a woman more unique than her pussy. I know. I’ve seen plenty of them. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes.
Some are tucked inside like a little girl’s cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and others are covered with transparent fuzz. Appreciate your woman’s unique qualities and tell her what makes her special.
Gently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Now spread the tops of her pussy up until you can find her clit.
Women have clits in all different sizes, just like you guys have different sized cocks. It doesn’t mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.
When you touch a woman’s pussy, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit because it doesn’t have any juices of it’s own and it’s extremely sensitive.
Your finger will stick to it if it’s dry and that hurts. But you don’t want to touch her clit anyway. You have to work up to that. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled.
Approach her pussy slowly. Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her pussy, then float away. Make her anticipate it.
Now lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy. Nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her.
After you’ve done this to the point where your lady is bucking up from her seat and she’s straining to get more of you closer to her, then put your lips right on top of her slit.
Kiss her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her pussy lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of pussy flesh.
Gently spread her legs more with your hands. Everything you do with a woman you’re about to eat must be done gently.
Tongue-fuck her. This feels divine. It also teases the hell out of her because by now she wants some attention given to her clit. Check it out. See if her clit has gotten hard enough to peek out of it’s covering.
If so, lick it. If you can’t see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your tongue up to the top of her slit and feel for her clit.
You may barely experience it’s presence. But even if you can’t feel the tiny pearl, you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers it. Lick hard now and press into her skin.
Gently pull the pussy lips away and flick your tongue against the clit, hood covered or not. Do this quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder.
When you sense she’s getting up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and take the clit into your mouth. Start to suck gently and watch your lady’s face for her reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder.
If she digs it, suck even harder. Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension of her rising orgasm, move with her, don’t fight her. Hang on, and keep your hot mouth on her clit. Don’t let go. That’s what she’ll be saying too: “Don’t stop. Don’t ever stop!”
