A Woman’s Vulva Is Beautiful
She needs a lot of pussy praise.
She has to put up with a lot of
criticism when it comes to her vulva.
Most of the messages she gets
about her genitals have to do
with cleaning them or doing
something about that camel’s toe.
There are deodorizing sprays and wipes.
The message suggests our vulvas smell bad).
Then there are waxes for our pubic hair.
Even plastic surgery to tidy up the lips.
worship the vulva.
A State of Being
When it comes to vulvas there is a lot of shame
and disgust with our natural state of being.
The road to shameless self love is not
an easy one for a woman with so few
positive messages available to her.
Praise Be! [the vulva]
When was the last time you heard
a vulva described as beautiful?
There are great artists who have given
the vulva praise in art such a Georgia O’Keefe.
But the vulva doesn’t get its due praise
and adoration compared with the penis.
Many women are left feeling very confused
and unsure of their vulvas.
They don’t know if their vulvas look good, smell
good, or are even normal – let alone beautiful.
Compliment Her Vulva
There are often not a lot of guides available
to help a woman on her way to self-acceptance
and the true pleasure that is available in her body.
Advice to men: if you want to help yourself
or a woman in your life feel better about
herself and have hotter, more delicious sex,
why not engage in a vulva compliment
and adoration session?
The next time you get your lover in bed why not
set some time aside to simply gaze lovingly at
the face of her sexuality. Tell her that she’s beautiful.
Pet her lovingly without going after sex at that moment.
Give a gentle kiss – and perhaps even tell your favorite
vulva that she smells good.
And while you are at it, thank this beautiful
vulva for all the pleasure that she gives you.
Receiving this praise, adoration and love
from your men is a beautiful and healing.
I’d encourage you to indulge yourself.
You don’t need a partner. Do it yourself.
Set aside some time – and create your own
ritual of self love and adoration.
Try starting with a warm bath to relax yourself
and place your hand over your entire Venus mound.
Some Loving Pussy
Then offer yourself some loving pussy
affirmations such as “My vulva is beautiful”,
“I have a gorgeous and amazing pussy.”
“I love all of the pleasure my Yoni gives me”.
I’m sure that you can come up with a few on your own!
Gateway to Pleasure
Let’s start a new trend among women and
the men who desire us. Let’s offer praise
to this gateway to pleasure and life.
You might be amazed what could begin
to open when the Mounds of Venus are
given love, praise and adoration.
Is Pussy Derogative?
Try Cunt instead
Is it just a dirty word whispered
between the sheets? Or a powerful
rallying cry in the streets?
Join sex educators, scholars, artists,
and community members for a provocative
exploration of the word cunt and why
contemporary feminists use it.