Heterosexual men might say they want
nice characteristics in a partner, but
in reality what they want is the challenge
that comes with dating a “bad girl”.
This idea is so widespread that some people are even
making money off the back of it, selling self-help
books and teaching women how to pick up men by
insulting them – a practice known as “negging”.
The “attractive” power
Sometimes we find coarse people attractive. Narcissists
– people who show high levels of self-importance,
superiority, entitlement, arrogance and a willingness
to exploit others – are often perceived as very
attractive in initial encounters.
This may be because they put a lot of effort into their
appearance and how they come across. Studies have shown that
female narcissists tend to wear more make-up and show more
cleavage than women who score lower on narcissism, whereas
male narcissists spend more time building up their muscle mass.
We Love Bad Girls
From when we’re little, we hear the same refrains:
Listen to authority figures, be feminine, defer
to others, and follow the rules — official and
implied. And “Where’s your smile, sweetie?”
The women we see as bad girls often defy all those
edicts. They do what they want. They flout the rules.
They don’t give a damn about their bad reputation.
Bad Girls Watch Porn
I enjoy watching porn, so I get turned on
by seeing women spread.
When I masturbate my legs spread a little
and I like the ache my thighs feel.
Girl Shoots Herself
I’ve noticed my boyfriend likes to bring my
legs together. We haven’t talked much about
I mentioned it once and he said it
feels better when they’re together.
He thought it must feel bad for guys in porn
since visually its better if her legs are spread.
I understand that it must be tighter for him,
but it feels sexier/dirtier for me to be spread.
Bad Girls Club
Bad Girls Share Cock
Come on Girls
Bad Girls Do It Well
Bad Girls Go Down
Dazed and Confused? All those decisions
to make when you give a man oral.
Like: should you kneel between his legs,
or lie on your side, Or have him hump
your face from on top of you?
Or: Do you try and breath through your nose
the whole time, or do you subtly attempt
to inhale oxygen into your mouth around him?
Or even: do you attempt to lick his balls
at the same time, or play with them with your
hands even though they feel super weird like
jellyfish, or do you ignore then altogether?
FUCK!. It is so hard being a girl.