A classic, this position involves penetrating your
lover from behind with you both on all fours.
The deeper penetration really helps women achieve
a greatorgasm. You can enhance pleasure further
with ribbedcondoms or sex toys such as cock rings.
Fondling her breasts, kissing and nibbling
her neck can also ramp things up a bit.
Some claim sex is a spiritual act but for
most of us it’s just not that deep. We’ve all known
people who can fuck someone and think nothing more
of them once they’ve got what they want.
Then there are people who slept with someone once
and spend the next twenty years talking about them.
I think it depends on the value you place on sex.
I find it hard to believe that sex workers are
spiritually connected to every trick who spends
money on them. And the same can be said for the johns.
It’s just an exchange, a way to meet a biological need.
Ride him for Deep Penetration
Up & Over
If you’re tired of sticking to missionary and want
something that achieves the same sort of intimacy,
this position is for you.
Place your partner on her back and put
a pillow under her bottom to elevate her hips.
Then, lift her legs and place them on your shoulders.
You’re able to achieve a better rhythm and
deeper penetration with your thrusting.
Eventually, her legs may get tired.
It’s okay to lower them. After just
a few minutes of the “up and over”
position, she’ll be primed and
that much closer to achieving orgasm
than in the normal missionary position.
Meanwhile in the
How Deep Can You Go?
Sex Show: Pump It Up!
Always be on the lookout for a possible
sexual innuendo. A “risqué” double entendre
plays on a sexual interpretation of an
otherwise innocent statement. Are you coming?
For example: “We need to go deeper” can be seen
as either a request for further inquiry,
or a request to go deeper into her vagina.
“Would you like to come inside’ is another example.
Suggesting the female would like to be fucked.
People often follow a seemingly innocent phrase with
“that’s what she said”, exposing the smutty meaning.
This Will Pump You up
My first teenage sexual experience consisted
of hours and weeks spent half naked with the
same very well endowed boy and not the first
clue what to do with him.
We groped endlessly in the dark (literally
and metaphorically), both teetering on the
edge of orgasm but never quite making it.
I Wasn’t Bold Enough
In today’s terms, I wasn’t sexually empowered.
It took a few more years and several rereads
of The Female Eunuch before I could either
contemplate tasting my own menstrual blood
(as Germaine Greer famously advocated) or
feel entitled enough to orgasm with a man.