Do Women Prefer
a Large Penis?
You’ve heard the catchphrase “size
doesn’t matter,” but it can matter for
certain types of female orgasms.
Women who have frequent vaginal orgasms
are more likely than other women to say
they climax more easily with men who have
larger penises.
Is My penis Big Enough?
Male anxiety about penis size may not reflect internalized, culturally arbitrary masculine stereotypes. But an accurate appreciation that size matters is the case with many women.
Young men can start feeling anxious when they enter the mating market. “Will my cock satisfy women?”
It’s true that women who orgasm through vaginal stimulation may prefer longer penises but not everyone prefers to orgasm that way.
Both penis size and female orgasm are trending topics. There is still scientific debate about whether vaginal and clitoral orgasms are different phenomena.
Different nerves carry signals from the vagina and from the clitoris, Komisaruk said, and stimulation of each activates different brain regions.
Some researchers argue that vaginal stimulation is simply activating a different, internal, section of the clitoris. Women report different sensations from vaginal and clitoral orgasms but which one women prefer largely comes down to personal preference.
In some cases, female orgasm is even more complex. There’s the G spot, a sensitive area felt through the front wall of the vagina.
Women with complete spinal cord injuries can sometimes experience orgasm, even though the nerves that carry sensation up the spinal cord from the pelvis have been severed.
It’s likely that the sensory vagus nerve, which runs in the abdomen but bypasses the spinal cord, is recruited to carry signals to the brain in these cases.
Other research has found that abdominal exercises induce orgasm in some women, resulting in pleasurable spasms at the gym.
Small Penis Complex
Penis Size Anxiety
What kind of man would hang a five-pound weight from his cock in the hope of gaining an extra inch? A desperate man, with a huge inferiority complex
Recently, John Thomas set out to find the definitive answer to the classic question: “Does size matter?” His quest took him around the globe.
A porn convention in California where he was given the morale-boosting advice that nobody wants to feel like “a hotdog down a hallway”.
Snake Alley in Taipei, where he drank snake blood and ate rooster testicles.
Master Tu’s Qigong centre in Thailand, to witness a man lifting 350 pounds off the ground with his penis.
Thomas discussed his insecurity with anyone who would listen, including his own father, who himself admits to being a “small hanger”.
Urologist Dr Jennifer Berman, who confirms that his “junk” is the “male equivalent of a girl with an A-cup”.
Porn icon Ron Jeremy, who told him, perhaps more helpfully, that “a good tongue is more important.”
His exploration was ignited by a rejected marriage proposal. She said no because John’s penis was “too small”.
Thomas may be a personal quest, but it’s one which could soon be shared by a whole generation of men, if it isn’t already. Men in the US now spend almost $5 billion a year on penis enhancement products, that’s more than the entire budget for the Red Cross. Penis inferiority complex has become a pandemic.
Male Domination
[The Thrusting Penis]Most people don’t understand how large
the clitoris is and how much of it is
under the labia and wrapped round the urethra.You may get some part of your clitoris
stimulated with penile penetration.It’s not how you had an orgasm, it’s that
you had one. There’s this fixation that
you come because of penile thrusting.The dominant male discourse assumes a women
needs a penis in her vagina for an orgasm.His penile thrusting makes him think
‘I’m the crowing cock, I’ve brought
you to orgasm with my mighty spear.’A Woman’s Taste in Cocks
Women who have a preference for a larger penis
are treated like sluts. If you like big dicks
it means you are a dirty whore who has been
stretched out by all the sex you’ve had.
This attitude is just plain offensive.
A guy who spends time looking at images and clips
of beautiful, thin women with large breasts is
the same one who will criticize his partner if she
hints that she might find a larger penis more pleasurable.
Size does matter at least to some extent.
Female preferences probably helped shape
the size and thickness of the human penis
through natural selection.Human cocks are longer and wider than those
of other primates. What drove human males to
develop such comparatively long penises?
Women find taller men with larger shoulder-to-hip
ratios and longer penises to be the most attractive.But there are limits. Once men exceed a threshold
for extreme size, women rank their attractiveness
as only slightly above average.Do men with larger cocks tend to father more
children who carry those large penis genes?
For boys, puberty generally occurs between the ages
of 12 and 16. It can begin at any point between the
ages of 8 and 14 and may last for up to 4 years.During this time, the penis will get longer and thicker.
The rate of growth varies from one person to another.Once puberty ends, the penis will stop growing.
This is typically by the time the male reaches 18.Other changes that affect the penis
and genitals during puberty include:testicle growth, thinning and reddening of
the testicles, pubic hair growth around the penis,
nocturnal emissions of semen, or “wet dreams”
more frequent erections and ejaculationA Man’s Hang-up
QUESTION: I recently went on a date with a guy (I’m 18 and he’s 21), and it went great. We had a nice dinner and walk through the mall, and then went back to his place for intimate time.
I’m just going to cut to the chase: He is small. Not just “Oh, that’s small,” but he seriously asked “Is it in yet?” and I couldn’t feel him inside me.
I really want to continue to pursue a relationship with him because he is beyond amazing, but how can we make sex work between us? I can’t fake it forever.
ANSWER: If you’ve had orgasms from intercourse alone in the past, and if how you have an orgasm is more important to you than everything else he has to offer, then you have to move on.
On the other hand, if you tell him that you’re not going to be able to have an orgasm via intercourse with him, and he gives you an orgasm with his fingers or a vibrator or another way so that you are left sexually satisfied, then maybe this relationship can work.
So definitely don’t fake it. Either stop seeing him, or decide that you want to continue the relationship and sex will require more than just intercourse.
Lena’s Complaint
She met ‘mister right’ over a date after knowing him for nearly a year. “I was eager to see when he’d make the move. And on the second date he called me over to his place. I was really excited. The mood was chilled that night, we had a couple of beers and quite naturally we ended up in his bed.”
She’d no idea of what was in store for her. “It was while we were making out that I realized he had a really small penis. I went to feel it and there wasn’t much to feel. I was in shock. I didn’t know what to do. I made a silly excuse and convinced him that I had to leave right away.”
She felt horrible chickening out. “His penis was the smallest I have ever encountered. Might have been the size of my index finger. It’s not just the length, but the width as well. The size just didn’t seem right to me. I feel really shallow even talking about it.”
This was something entirely new for her. “Fortunately or unfortunately, I have always been with men who’ve been seven to eight inches. I’ve never thought it was a big deal. But I realize now that I’ve probably been taking it for granted. I wonder what women who get married and have sex for the first time feel about being caught in such a situation.”
I just don’t find a small penis appealing. It’s just unattractive to me. I like to hold my man’s penis in my hand. I guess it’s just more arousing if the penis is of a desirable size. It’s probably all in the head, I’m not sure.”
Leena wasn’t ready to give up. “I went on another date after a lot of thought. I went back to see him because he’s genuinely a nice guy. I like him. But I realized that the size of the penis will be a problem for me. I just couldn’t handle the pressure on myself. I told him I couldn’t continue seeing him. Never gave him the true reason.”
