How Hard is Your Cock?
It’s well-known that Erectile Dysfunction [ED]
can be caused by anxiety. Most of us believe
it’s worry about performance.
It is not surprising a lot of men
experience performance anxiety
since boys are socialized around
having to prove they are always capable.
Once men experience a couple of erection
failures, they begin to lose confidence in
themselves, which leads to performance anxiety.
Men put a lot of pressure on their bodies to perform perfectly.
Long before intercourse even begins, at the first thought
it might be time to have sex, men become anxious and worried
they won’t be able to get hard or stay hard.
This anxiety constricts the blood vessels and keeps
men in their minds and disconnected from their bodies,
making it much more likely for ED to continue.
You can take pressure off your cock by understanding
what women really want from sex and learning how to
drive your woman wild before you even take your pants off.
What women really want from sex is an emotional
experience. They have sex to feel something!
They want to feel your desire and that you’re fully present.
If lose your erection and then feel guilty
or ashamed you will likely distance from
your partner and she may feel left alone or abandoned.
Instead, if you really make her feel something
and give her and her body all the attention it needs,
she will be lying there, a puddle of post orgasmic
bliss, with much less concern if sometimes you
have an erection and sometimes you don’t.
This way, you can take the pressure off of your
cock as you continue to pursue better mastery.
Psychological ED has at least 3 underlying causes:
performance anxiety, impulse control – too much,
not too little – and functional response to a
dysfunctional situation.
Where you have very good reasons not to be having
sex with the person you are attempting to have it
with and your penis knows better than you do).