Eating Out Cunnilingus

Eating Out

A lot of men, especially when they’re younger,
aren’t really quite sure where things are.

This turns into a fast lapping that lacks
direction and is similar to when you quickly
lick a melting ice cream cone on a hot day.

She Loves It When You Go down on Her

Officially called cunnilingus, there are a number
of slang phrases for a man giving a women oral sex.
They include eating her out, going down on her,
tipping the velvet and muff-diving.

Are you’re hung up about giving oral sex
to your woman because of odours or other
preconceived notions that you have?

We suggest you get over yourself,
because your girl likes to receive
oral sex as much as you consider
a good blow job a part of foreplay.

Does She Love It When You Go down on Her?

I’ve realized I just don’t like cunnilingus. I’ve been left
hanging on too many occasions. If I never had it again,
I’d be fine with it. I don’t need ‘going down’ on the
menu every time I have sex.

There’s only been one man in my life who was able
to give me an orgasm from oral sex. He suffered
from premature ejaculation so he’d learned to
master cunnilingus.

But with most men I’ve always hoped we could
just skip the whole oral sex part. I was more
than happy to give, but not so excited to receive.

Although their desire to give was definitely
exciting and a turn on, it was something I
could pass. I won’t even get into both t
he physical and mental response whenever
I’ve heard “sit on my face.” No, thanks, love.

As a means to test this theory and finally come clean
about my less than enthusiastic feelings on receiving
oral sex, my current partner and I gave it a try —
with the complete honesty out there between us.

His feeling is that I’m too much of a stress case
and refuse to relax, while I argued that while this
is true, I saw the cunnilingus part of the evening
as almost a break from the events that were going
on so I could think about what I had to do the following
day or what color I should get during my next manicure.

It wasn’t a knock against him or any guy who came
before or would come after him. It was just simply
a lack of interest. It’s just how it is.

While I explained to Mr. Current Partner that
I wouldn’t stop him from going down on me if
that was something enjoyable for him, he just
shouldn’t expect me to get all amped up and
put on a show. It is what it is.

Muff-Diving Lesbians

I should have kept this to myself because now he’s
made it some sort of mission to prove me wrong.

I tried to tell him opinions can’t be wrong, but he
seems to feel otherwise when it comes to oral sex.

Different people like
different oral sex techniques

Some people love having their labia licked, while
others would prefer their partner stick to the clit.

Some people love it when you use your fingers and tongue
at the same time, but for others, that’s just too much.

If you’re with a new partner, try different techniques
to figure out what they like.

You can try doing clockwise or anticlockwise circles
around the glans clitoris to start. If her body is
responding positively, keep going.

If she isn’t feeling it, try something else.
You can move your tongue up and down, side to side,
or in a figure eight motion.

The clitoris is not the only area you can explore
with your tongue, but it has the most nerve endings
and is the center of the action.

Just for the Pleasure of It