Seduction:
The Greatest Pleasure
It’s interesting that we associate seduction with sex,
when in fact, true seduction is the opposite of sex.
Sex is when desire is met. Seduction is not about
the culmination or gratification of desire, it is
about the thrill of the desire itself.
It’s the game that played as desire comes closer,
and closer, and closer, and being able to maintain
that tension of wanting for a long time.
The Art of Seduction
Seducers take pleasure in performing. They’re not
weighed down by their identity, or by some need
to be themselves, or to be natural.
Every seduction has two elements which you
should analyze and understand.
First, yourself and what is seductive about you.
And second, your target and the actions that will
penetrate their defenses and create surrender.
Slow Seduction from Aleksandr Kolomenskiy on Vimeo.
Try looking at things through the lens of seduction.
What is seducing you? And how can you slow down every
meal in your life so that you can anticipate every
delicious bite, whether it’s a meal or giving your
lover pleasure. Can you make him/her whimper with
desire? Can you move that slowly?
Gentle Seduction from WOLF189 on Vimeo.
A flirtatious women [coquette] is self-sufficient,
with a fascinating cool at her core.
Coquettes seem totally self-sufficient.
They don’t need you, they seem to say.
Their narcissism proves devilishly attractive.
To understand the magnetic power of the Coquette,
you need to understand a critical property of
love and desire.
The more obviously you pursue a person,
the more likely you are to chase them away.
We’re inherently perverse. An easy conquest has
a lower value than a difficult one.
We’re only really excited by what is denied us,
by what we cannot possess in full.
Your greatest power in seduction is your
ability to turn away, to make others come
after you, delaying their satisfaction.
Self-esteem is critical in seduction.
Your attitude toward yourself is read by
the other person in subtle and unconscious ways.
Low self-esteem repels, confidence
and self-sufficiency attract.
The less you seem to need other people,
the more likely others will be drawn to you.
Young Lesbian Seduction
I often traded good men for bad ones; character didn’t much matter to me. I wasn’t exactly seeking love, either, regardless of what I might have claimed.
I can’t even say it was the sex. Sex was just the gateway drug for me, a portal to the much higher high I was really after, which was seduction.
Seduce me from WOLF189 on Vimeo.
Seduction is the art of coercing somebody to desire you, of orchestrating somebody else’s longings to suit your own hungry agenda.
Seduction was never a casual sport for me; it was more like a heist, adrenalizing and urgent.
Young Lust
I would plan the heist for months, scouting out the target, looking for unguarded entries. Then I would break into his deepest vault, steal all his emotional currency and spend it on myself.
That was power, but it was also affirmation. I was someone’s irresistible treasure. I loved that sensation, and I needed it, not sometimes, not even often, but always.