A lot of women think men watch porn because they want
their wives or girlfriends to have bleach blonde hair
and big boobs and do all those weird things on Pornhub.
You have to realize that isn’t why men
watch porn. It’s just entertainment.
You don’t criticise him [perhaps you should]
when he watches westerns. He doesn’t want
to go out, saddle up and be a hero
[maybe some do].
When it comes to all other forms of
entertainment, people are able to
distinguish between reality and fantasy.
Yet, all of a sudden, when it comes
to porn, we have these fears that it’s
really going to play into reality.
Creampie Content
The consequences of Roe v. Wade being overturned has had an effect on the porn industry. Some adult film actors—primarily women or those who can become pregnant—are declining to perform in so-called creampie content, or scenes where a man finishes inside a woman.
Instead, they’re increasingly turning to girl-on-girl content to avoid unwanted pregnancies, now that the end of Roe has allowed several states to ban abortion.
“For the time being, I have stopped working with other male models. I would love to continue to work with models if they can prove that they’ve had a vasectomy,” said one actress.
Because of the recent Supreme Court ruling, I’ve “stopped getting creampied and will never get creampied again. I want to be secure. If I happen to get pregnant on set, I’ll be able to terminate the pregnancy. I don’t want a porn baby.”
Men Need Porn for Entertainment
& Masturbation. Women Should Accept ItYour man binge-watches porn like it’s GOD and
he’s trying to catch up for the series finale.There are a lot of women, especially in my generation, who didn’t grow up with the internet. All of these statistics about porn viewing give us the perception that our perfect man doesn’t look at porn, but that is not the reality. Hands up men who never watch porn. I thought so.
Should I try
watching porn
with my boyfriend?I have a chapter that I preface “feel free to skip if you don’t want to watch porn.” I think that the majority of porn is made for men. If couples are going to watch that type of porn, females aren’t going to enjoy it.
Just like any other type of movie, you don’t want to sit through one that you aren’t going to enjoy. Save what they like to watch for their alone time.
What are other ways women
can make peace with porn?The first part is women being honest with themselves. One of the studies that I ran into was about women and their fantasies. It said something like 80 percent of women have sexual fantasies compared to 99 percent of men.
What distinguished between the two was that the majority of women are actually fantasizing about a man they already know. Whereas for men, they are fantasizing about a faceless woman, someone who doesn’t exist or they don’t have access to.
If the roles were reversed and women found out that our man was fantasizing about the woman two doors down, we would be livid.
What do you think has caused women
to feel so uncomfortable about porn?The porn industry itself. wasn’t one that treated women well in the beginning. There are a lot of instances where women were coerced into participating. It was a male dominated industry.
Now it is a lot different. The performers have a lot more power. No matter how socially acceptable porn might become, sex itself is still an intimate and private experience. A lot of people aren’t willing to vocalize that they like porn.
It’s always good to have an open conversation about what you like. It shouldn’t be a one way of what the guy likes. It should be more of a compromise. You might be willing to wear stocking and boots, but not pull out the whip.
It’s also important not to judge people on their fantasies. There are a lot of things that go into why people have fetishes, as long as it’s harmless, there is no reason to judge.
Sex in the bedroom is a team effort. I don’t think just saying I am going to do whatever they are watching has to be done.