Let’s not beat about the bush. All heterosexual
men see women as sexual objects. Every single
one of them. No exceptions.
We’re biologically programmed to view them that way.
Not only that, but women are biologically programmed
to see themselves as sexual objects.
If they didn’t, they would never submit to having
sex with us. There’d be no more babies.
The fact that you are alive tells you that women
enjoy being treated as sexual objects.
If they didn’t, you would’ve never been born.
Believe it or not, women are actually turned on
by being sexually desired by a man who is not
afraid to express that desire in a tactful
and non-needy nor a threatening way.
Being sexually desired makes a woman feel
feminine and alive. It also makes them feel
powerful being able to elicit that kind of
a response in a man, as it is proof that
they are desirable as a potential mate.
Why do you think they wear clothes that accentuate
their sexual objects like their breasts, legs and butts?
It’s because they like being viewed as sexual objects.
They love knowing that they can elicit feelings of
intense desire in a man.
Men look at attractive women because it indicates
the women are healthy, an evolutionary advantage.
Some women assume the male gaze is sinful hurtful and evil.
Feminism sees it as exploitative, turning women into sexual objects.
But the male gaze is about more than leering.
Men desire women and express that desire by gazing at them.
It can be done discreetly. No need for a wolf-whistle.
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Sexual Tendency:
Men Rush, Women
Take Their Time
Men tend to rush through foreplay. It’s because
they don’t see it the same way as women do.
The male is ready for sex the moment he has an erection.
It’s difficult to delay sex when he’s got a hard-on
and a willing woman nearby.
To hold back goes against our biological wiring.
We may have only so many potent hours in our lifetime.
Asking us to waste even a precious few minutes on
foreplay doesn’t jibe with our evolutionary programming.
To us, foreplay has only one purpose: to get us
craving penetration as quickly as possible, by
warming you up and helping you lubricate.
To make that happen, we may touch you the way
we like to be touched sexually.
We make a rush for the genitals. Women usually
enjoy the lightest, feathery, teasing touch in
areas that men don’t necessarily think of as erotic,
such as the face, hair, neck and the sides of her body.
Different Strokes
for Men & WomenIf a woman really wants her guy to love foreplay and get creative with it, stop calling it foreplay and start calling it building anticipation.
Men want to be playful. As long they we know that sex is coming eventually, making a game out of getting there can create a mind-blowing urgency. One that will soon make sex without foreplay seem dull by comparison. Here are two suggestions for you girls:
Set a timer, and tell him he’s not allowed to take off his pants for 15 minutes. It’ll force him to become more creative and it has all the buildup.
Use sex candies. Or whipped cream. Bait the areas of your body where you want more attention — all the places he misses when going in for the kill. React passionately, and you’ll soon make him a foreplay connoisseur
For Fuck’s Sake, Take Your Time!
Men can get an erection in as little as three to eight seconds after initial stimulation. Women need a little more time and encouragement: Vaginal lubrication may start 10-30 seconds after stimulation begins.
Men, in general, have a more direct link between arousal and being ready for sex. Many women, however, report that even though they may be getting wet, that doesn’t necessarily mean they want sex.
Even though women have increased blood flow to their genitals after seeing a sexual stimulus, their actual desire to have sex doesn’t always follow as readily as it does in men.
There doesn’t seem to be a connection between increased blood flow in the vagina and reported subjective arousal. That shouldn’t be confused with the idea that women didn’t get physiologically aroused.
While watching a film depicting explicit sexual activity, most women’s vaginal blood flow increases as measured with vaginal photoplethysmography (a technique of measuring blood flow with a light-sensitive device a woman puts inside her vagina).
This increase occurs within seconds after the onset of a film, which suggests a relatively automatic response not requiring conscious cognitive processes. Even when the erotic film is disliked or induces little or no feeling of sexual arousal, genital responses still occur.
When women watch ‘woman-friendly’ porn, videos that allow time for plot and character development, their level of subjective sexual arousal is higher than when they watched ‘man-friendly’ porn.
‘Man-friendly’ erotica is film that spares little if no time for such developments. It gets right down to business. It’s also interesting to note there are no differences in women’s genital arousal between either set of erotic videos.
Women’s sexual feelings are more interested in the story line rather than the viewed sexual stimulus.
