For many men, the fantasy of domination,
or having total power over their partner
in a sexual situation, can get them roused.
Fantasies include bondage, spanking,
dirty talk, receiving oral sex, as
well as other forms of domination.
The opposite can be the case. Men
who want to be dominated, humiliated.
Men Imagine a Threesome
When men are in their 20s and 30s, their sex drive is
often about proving their masculinity and attractiveness
through the acquisition of multiple sex partners,
provided they haven’t yet married [or even if they have].
This is when men get caught up in lusting for a three-way.
During this stage, men feel the looming anxiety that
sexual liberation will soon end with marriage,
so they want to check off as many sexual fantasies
and lofty conquests on their list as soon as possible.
Make Sure She’s Roused
When sex is initiated, the ability to get sexually aroused
takes twice as long for a woman (if it happens at all)
because she has to get out of her negative thought pattern
and into feeling the positive pleasures of her body.
Women need at least 10 to 15 minutes of warm-up. Ironically,
that’s how long the average sexual encounter lasts.
Suddenly the sex is over and she hasn’t had a chance to
enjoy herself, even if she had an orgasm, which creates
an even deeper resentment toward any future sex act.
Ready for Some
Punishment, Boy?
More men than women engage in masochistic behavior.
The main differences are with the specific acts preferred.
Women prefer less intense forms of masochism [light spanking).
Men prefer acts that reduce their status as a man
[being humiliated, whipped, made to feel worthless.
Some masochists like to be tied up and flogged (BDSM).
A ‘pure’ masochist is aroused by more severe or
dangerous forms of masochism such as asphyxiation.
Bad Bitch
A bad bitch is a strong, sexualised,
self-reliant and materialistic woman.
In hip hop culture, the term bitch signifies
a hardcore woman who makes money and proudly
flaunts her sexual libido and sexuality.
Someone who holds her own with rap’s gangsta thugs
Bad Bitch from Dazia Moore on Vimeo.
Add Spice
to Missionary Sex
When was the last time your fuck of the night bit your ear, whispered, “How do you want it?” and you responded, “Baby, give it to me in missionary. I really want to just lie here and take it like a little bitch, you bad boy.”
Let’s face it’s convenient, simple and it gives at least 50 percent of the hookups the option of getting in a quick nap. But, there really isn’t anything very exciting about the old mish posish.
I don’t know about you, but in school I am definitely not just trying to pass with the bare minimum, and it’s no different when I’m in bed — A+ or nothing.
Unless you’re warming up your mojo or trying to get by with Sex or Dummies, I’m going to have to give missionary a low C.
Students, get out your notepads, because I’m about to teach you how to fuck up the entire class’s sex curve with some easy-to-handle variations on some old classics.
Let’s first start with some simple maneuvers born out of the original lame sex culprit itself. Ok, so you know when a rabid monkey jumps on your face and wraps its tiny little man-legs around your head?
Yeah girls, you know what I’m talking about,wrap your legs around his body like an orangutan in heat. And here’s a novel idea, push back.
Honestly what kills me the most about missionary is that the chick often just lays there like a beached fish — it’s like ping-pong with a wall or just ping.
Grab that ball and pong him back, woman. He might as well be fucking a corpse — which, nasty as it is — is actually a thing. So make like an upside-down, super-malleable pepper grinder and work him back.
Another easy hop, skip and a fuck away from missionary involves grabbing her legs and moving them around until something feels O-tastic.
Go ahead, continental soldier, throw ‘em over your shoulder. Just maybe avoid tyin’ ‘em in a knot and/or bow while testing out her flexibility.
Message: Get Naughty
The missionary position is a classic for a reason. It is one of the most comfortable and versatile sex positions. But we all know that boredom is a libido killer.
If you are in a sexual rut and find yourself having boring sex in missionary position all the time, it may be time to add a bit of variety to amp up the pleasure.
But you don’t have to give up the missionary position to have more fun in bed. Try introducing some bad girl sex tricks! Try simple bondage and invite your lover to be more dominant. Simple cuffs designed for erotic bondage cost less than $20 and are the safest option for exploring the pleasures of being all tied up.
Only try this strategy if you trust your lover to keep your pleasure in mind as he gets more rough. Set clear boundaries about what will and will not happen, and then try to surrender and let him have his way with you!
Turn it up a notch by wearing a blindfold. Without the ability to move your arms or see what is happening, every tiny touch will feel intense and you’ll soon be suspended in erotic sensation.
