Like men, women are now using porn as a quick
way to have sex without emotional investment.
Web porn is able to satisfy that need in a raw,
immediate sense, quickly and easily. Why serenade
someone and go through all the courtship rituals
with another person when you have instant access
to free porn sites?
The hysteria surrounding porn ‘addiction’ is part of
a cultural response to sexual liberation. Society is
still fearful of of anything encouraging licentiousness.
Sex is a very natural function. What is an abnormal
level of sex to have or to want? If a woman is taking
two minutes to orgasm to porn, and she’s doing it, say,
10 times a day, that’s still only 20 minutes a day.
The puritan response to porn is far too severe.
It’s as if we fear losing control and plunging into chaos.
Women Need to Be
Sexually Roused
Women are mental. No, I don’t mean we’re crazy.
What I mean is we need mental stimulation.
Sure, you can be the hottest guy in
the room but if you don’t know how
to socialize with a woman, you won’t get far.
Arouse is used figuratively or to describe
feelings, while rouse more commonly refers to
physical action and things that inspire action.
Get Her In Bed
# Learn to relate to women
You can do this through texting or
chatting face-to-face, but the point
is, you attempt to make yourself the
guy she thinks about when she gets home.
# Don’t rush things.
Many men have this problem.
When they see the girl is somewhat interested,
they jump on her like she’s prey.
Listen, if she’s a little interested, she’s not
fully on your side, so don’t scare her away.
Talk to her, get to actually know her,
and build a connection.
Remember what I said, women need to be mentally stimulated.
If you jump this step, she notices you only want a fuck.
#3 Flirt with her. Listen, we all go to bars
for a reason: in hopes of getting laid.
Anyone who says it’s just a
girl’s night is full of shit.
If you drone on about your job or how
stressful school is, she doesn’t give a fuck.
That’s not making her wet. You need to flirt
with her, tease her, build the sexual tension.